For the most part, I am trying to keep my blog free of any debatable political material and I didn’t want to mention the recent president elect, because well, my kids are so much more fun to talk about. But, recently, as I’ve perused the internet, checked blogs, forums and status’s on facebook, I’m confused, saddened and admittedly angry at some of the responses of ‘Christians’ to the new president.
Is disappointment normal? Of course it is when your candidate doesn’t win! Many Christians did not want president-elect Obama, to get into office. But I’ve seen recent sayings such as ‘America, you got what you deserve’… written by American ‘Christians’ none the less. What exactly does that mean? It is blatant anti American talk! This is not the time to pit Christians against America. This is not the time for us against them. We are all Americans… and we shouldn’t forget that. This is a time to unite and back our president, no matter who he is. This is a time to back America, not put her down. America needs all the support and backing it can get from it’s citizens, more importantly, it’s Christian citizens. I can’t understand the motive behind this sentiment, but it seems rooted in hatred and anger, rather than the love that God is. Thank God that He does not give us what we deserve! I’m not sure that any of us are in the position to decide or determine what someone else “deserves”… at least I’m not going to pretend that I am.
Well, last night started out with a bang! We dropped the kids off, got dressed and headed up to Salvador's wedding (Salvador works for Erik's company). It was out kinda in the country in Lake Elsinore. It was a nice venue. When we arrived, we were the only non Mexican people there. It was fun though, we just kicked it together and enjoyed the kid free time we had. After awhile, more people started coming and our table filled up. Everyone was having a GREAT time just laughing, eating and hanging out. It was nice for Erik to hang out with the guys that work for there, outside of work. Erik is pretty fluent in Spanish, so he enjoys practicing his Spanish anyway. Well, after about 2.5 hours, we get a call that Tyler is throwing up. Poor kid threw up like six times, then Bailey started in too. So sadly, we had to head home. It was a TOTAL bummer as we hadn't even started dancing... but the kids needed us, so we went. Hopefully we'll get some alone time next weekend. We are going to a wine tasting at Erik's grandpa's house that he just built. It's a gorgeous home complete with a home theater and a wine cellar! I'm looking forward to that.
Anyway, I only got a few pictures to post here. I was trying to take pictures of some of the guys to put up at the office, but I only got like 5 or 6 of the guys. Oh well! We didn't get the memo that Erik should wear a cowboy hat! I told him for the Christmas party I'm buying him one!
Erik and I. We did get a decent picture!
This is Manuel, Erik's business partner, with his girlfriend Patti.
A few of the guys... complete with cowboy hats! The first I think is Miguel and the second one is Luis. (I just learned their names last night so forgive me if I'm off).
This is Humberto, he's a real Character. I think this is his Mexican Clint Eastwood look.
Erik with some of the other guys. The one on the left is Alex, but I can't remember the one on the right.
And finally Tonya, my sister in law. She works at the company too.
All in all it was a good night. It was nice to meet some of the workers at Erik's company and to hang out.
Friday evenings we have ceramics class. Usually Tyler does not go, but tonight he came and then got a chance to do the potters wheel, it was really cute. He really enjoyed it. Both of the kids had a great time. I tell you, Friday nights are wild and crazy around here! I thought I'd share some pictures. OK, I'm trying a new thing with my pictures. Now you can click on them to make them bigger.
Bailey on the potters wheel... Tyler trying to "help"
Tyler on the potters wheel
Bailey's creation
All done!
Can't forget Ryan. He's playing at the train table.
Tomorrow, Erik and I are pretty excited to be going out... ALONE! All three kids will be spending the night at my parents house. Yay! One of Erik's employee's is getting married. It should be interesting because I doubt many people will be speaking in English. Honestly, I really could care less. Just give me some music, a dance floor, wine, and a kid free evening, and you can talk to me in whatever language you like. :)
Anyway, now I just have to figure out what to wear. Hopefully we'll get some good pictures together. We'll see. Erik is not very photogenic. (No offense).
Well, I found my cell phone! For those of you who know me, it's kind of like an appendage. I lost it like a week ago. But, I honestly was beginning to enjoy it. It's kind of nice to be unreachable. I think I'll lose it more often. I'm kind of sad, but very very happy to have all my numbers and texts back.
One good thing that came out of this: I found out I'm eligible for an upgrade! Nice. Off to take the kids to art class.
So much has gone on since my last post! It's kind of like one of those things where so much has gone on, but it's been such a blur that I can't remember anything! All I am sure of is that this time change is kicking my butt and I'm EXHAUSTED! (PSA to Ryan, you don't need to get up at 5:30am every morning... Please, enjoy the extra sleep!).
I think what I'll do is break this post down by kid, and post some pictures that are of or relate to events happening with that particular child. That would be easiest, I think.
On October 29, Bailey turned 4! I cannot believe I have a four year old! It's insanity! Bailey is so much fun. She is the SWEETEST little kid, and has a kind heart. She remembers everything! Recently, Tyler was being especially naughty and actually climbed my counters in the kitchen, and got out red food dye, and put it on my carpet! That was after he somehow managed to bleach the carpet in his room with I have no idea what! Needless to say, Mommy was not doing the best job keeping her cool. Thankfully, God gave Bailey the right words to calm me down. The conversation that went on between Bailey and Tyler was adorable.
Bailey: Mommy, are you sad with TyTy?
Me: Yes, I'm very sad.
Bailey: I'm going to talk to TyTy about God. (To Tyler on the time out step) TyTy, you need to obey Mommy and listen to her because that makes God happy. You need to make God happy and not sad. You need to go over to mommy and give her a hug and say sorry.
And wouldn't you know it? He did. I was so proud of Bailey, I wasn't mad anymore, and I realized that Bailey is really listening to me and taking to heart what we teach her about God! And what's more, she's teaching her little brother! She IS REALLY growing up!
On top of that, Bailey has renamed herself Ariel. I'm considering a ban on Disney princess movies, as I think they are having a... uh strange affect on her. Bailey truly believes she is a princess (but hey all girls ARE princesses, right?!)... except, when she smiles now, she cocks her head to the side and flutters her eye lashes and insists that this is how princesses smile. It's funny, but I don't want to encourage it too much, and I can't pin down where she'd get that from, except the Disney movies. Oh well, hopefully it's a phase that will pass.
Aside from that, we had the hoe down at Bailey's school also. I did face painting. I don't know how Mrs. Dori suckered me into that, as I have no artistic talent, but I'll tell you what, I can make a mean pumpkin or candy corn. LOL. I tried. That's what counts.
For Halloween, Bailey dressed up as Ariel. Surprise. It was kind of cute. I mean it was cute, but her Pappaw bought her this red Ariel wig. It was very sweet of him and she LOVED it. However, it really didn't look all that cute on her. But of course, she insisted. Why oh WHY must they grow old and get an opinion about what they wear! Ugh!
On Bailey's actualy birthday, I brought a cake in to school, then we went out to lunch with my mom, Erik's mom, Ryan, Bailey and I. Bailey has 2 cousins that both turned 1, one on her birthday and the other a couple days later, so in an effort to spare our family, we combined them all for a little shindig.
I think that's about all to report on Bailey:) Here are some pictures.-
Bailey's Birthday Lunch... princess pose in full effect
Class Scarecrow at the hoe down
Back of the Ariel getup
Bailey at her birthday party... she insisted on wearing a princess dress up dress
Blowing out her candles
My first attempt at making a cake. It's not a sheep, it's a cow. Hey, I tried! It's not THAT bad! Is it?
One of the other birthday boys!
Oh great! More princess stuff! Thanks Annette! ;)
Well admittedly, Tyler wasn't up to TONS the last few weeks. He's done a lot better with his behavior the last couple of weeks though. (Middle Child stuff!). He's got a few pictures that just showcase his adorableness.
For Halloween, Tyler was Flounder. He was going to be a fisherman, and then Ryan a fish, and then Bailey Ariel. I like to do themes with the kids for Halloween. But then my friend gave me a lobster costume, so I had Ryan be Sebastian. That left Flounder for Tyler. Well, it was definitely last minute and sadly I couldn't find a flounder costume. Then a lady in Bailey's ceramics class was telling me her daughter was Flounder the previous year. Well I asked her if I could buy the costume off of her. I never thought to ask what size. Well it's 12-18 months. Oops! At least you'd THINK I'd be saying oops.
Apparently, there is an upside to having dwarfs as kids (my kids run incredibly tiny!), the 12-18 month costume fit my 2 years and 8 months old child. It wasn't perfect, 18-24 months would have been the best fit, but it did work!
Tyler continues to be insanely coordinated and has learned his left and right. Thanks Pappaw! He loves to kick balls and throw stuff. We've finally grown his hair out of his standard buzz cut and just this past week, he's been sporting a faux hawk! Very cute! No pictures of that yet though. Anyway, here's my little man.
Throwing a ball to pops!
Hugging on Ryan in the tub!
Swimming makes everyone happy!
In his Flounder costume! (I know it's the back again, I didn't get many front pics that night!)
Some of the neighborhood people! Sorry Ryan for exposing your diaper!
I almost forgot, he's getting really good at scissors!
Ryan is crawling very efficiently these days! He's also pulling up to standing and has been a lot more active these days! I'm not particularly impressed with how early he has been waking up, but other than that he's still my star student.
I've been asked a few times now about Ryan's brown shirts he wears a lot. He has a lot of clothes from a line called "Kicky Pants", which is a line of bamboo clothing for kids. It is very soft and I love it! It's kind of a lot of earth tones, and so that's why he's always wearing brown! Check them out, their clothes are so soft they are to die for. Seriously!
I just like these two.
Walked into a room and he was there standing.
Seriously this was the best picture I got of all three of them.
A happy lobster.
Mom, dude, stop taking pictures. This is SO lame!
Just because I'm really cute.
Ah! Today was picture day for Bailey! I pretty much forgot until after she went to bed. We got it together this morning, but we were late for school! Oh well, she looked cute. I'm a little concerned b/c when I told her to show me how she was going to smile, she "smiled" but it looked uh.. incredibly posed and fake. This years pics should be fun! I did get a pic of her and Ty before she left for school this morning though. It was shockingly half way decent. It's so hard to get them to smile at the same time!
Then this afternoon, Ephraim came over while his mom went to a midwife appointment. So we were just chillin'. Let's just say he missed his mommy. Even Ryan was trying to console him with a sweet little knee pat. Poor guy! He finally cheered up though... over some cookies! ;)
Today, I have been struggling with the idea of politics and Christianity. I don't really want to go too deep into it, because I'm tired and frankly, I've come to a conclusion that I don't feel the need to share any further. However, I think it's important to remember that God is not on one side (republican or democrat). He's in many Christians who happen to feel personally convicted to vote on one side or the other. There ought not to be any judgment among us about what is more or less Christian when it comes to politics. What matters is that we save as many souls as we can and love in a way that is only possible through Him, as we bring His love to the world. When you put it into that perspective that, it really doesn't matter which way we vote, does it?
Oh and I almost forgot, my token Ryan shot!
Well, likely these aren't my top five books EVER, but I've done quite a bit of reading in the past year or so, and these are at the top of my list. These aren't really in an order b/c they each played a role in shaping my perspectives, enriching my faith and also empowering me as a person to be just who God created me to be.
This book set me on the wild course to home birth. I had NO intention of birthing at home or doing ANYTHING unconventional. In fact, I can't remember why I bought it. It just kinda came up on my amazon homepage and I was intrigued at the idea of a birth without drugs, so I bought it. I believe God had a role in that because I was definitely not the natural, homebirthing type before this book!
Little did I know that upon finishing it, I'd switch from my OB to a birth center and then eventually to a midwife attended home birth! So, for me, this one is special! Half of the book is statistics and information. The other half is full of rich birth stories. Ina May is an interesting character, having lived on a commune for her life, delivering babies, and becoming probably the most respected midwife today by medical professionals.
This book is a great book for ANY woman who is birthing in the US to read. It is basically just a bunch of facts. It was based on statistical research, as well as out in the field, interviewing research (I can't recall the right name for that type of research right now!). I really loved it and couldn't put it down. I liked the author's style and was shocked at the information presented. Eye opening and a quick read!
Well, I never thought I'd be reading Christian fiction, but Francine Rivers is truly amazing. This book parallels God's love for us, even though we often fight him and try to fix things on our own. The book is about a sweet girl who gets stolen/sold (I can't remember!) into prostitution at a young age, she just had a terrible life. Then it's about a man who tries to save her from prostitution, and he does. This man has incredible faith, she fights him and runs away. But his love is steady and unconditional as he waits for her to turn to him and the Lord. This is seriously a tear jerker. It will challenge your faith and make you fall more in love with God. I made Erik read it and he loved it as well (don't tell him I told!).
This is another Francine Rivers book... but it's actually her Mark of the Lion series. Even more captivating and challenging than Redeeming Love, this book parallels ancient Roman society to today through the eyes of a young Jewish Christian sold into slavery in Rome. It's an excellent story about a girl who has such faith in God, it is amazing. You know that a faith like that is attainable and through reading it, you thirst for it more and more. I really LOVED this series. REALLY REALLY REALLY. If anyone wants to borrow my copies, let me know. My copies of any of these books actually.
Finally, Blue Like Jazz. I don't even know what to say about this book. I love Donald Miller, I love his style, I love his perspective, I love his blatant honesty and I love his love for God. He's so offbeat from your typical Christian writer. So different, so normal, so real. So not in your face at all, while being totally in your face but not meaning to... if that makes sense.
For me, this book changed my thinking, it helped me at a time where I was wondering what exactly does it look like to be a Christian? Do I look like a Christian? Is modern day American Christianity what a Christian looks like? I was feeling like I didn't really have a place b/c I'm not your typical Right Wing Conservative Christian type. Not at all. But most of my Christian friends are that way, love them dearly though! For me, this book said, you are how God created you to be. Be who YOU are and then DO something for God with that. I was very touched by this book and I think you will be to!
We are just coming off a really great weekend and I'm sad to see Monday rolling around again! We spent a lot of family time just hanging around and relaxing with ourselves and with relatives. It's so nice to live by all our family!
On Friday night, we just hung out with the kids, and kicked back. Saturday we had dinner at Erik's parents house, grilled out, did some cleaning, etc. Sunday, I made a couple meals and took them over to a friend who just had a baby girl. Bailey went to the the stables (Erik's family's business) with her Nana and hung out with some cousins and then in the evening we had dinner with my folks. We got a lot done around the house and spent quality family time, you can't really ask for more out of a weekend!
I made a really great soup for the first time that I doubled (and then halved so we could have some!) to bring to my girlfriend while she's recovering from birth. Another friend of mine raves about this recipe. It is delicious, but BEWARE!!! there is velveeta involved.
Velveeta skeeves me out, but honestly, it was really good. I think you can substitute shredded sharp cheddar and then mix in some cream or something... here's the recipe though (from my friend Meghan).
Meg's Loaded Baked Potato Soup
6-7 potatoes
1 large onion
2 chicken bullion cubes
1 lb. velveeta cheese
16 oz. sour cream
"real" bacon bits
Directions:
1. Peal and chop potatoes.
2. Put in pot and cover just slightly w/ water. Cook in bullion cubes until tender.
3. Add onions, cheese, and sour cream, stirring until smooth.
4. Serve and top w/ bacon bits.
MAKES PLENTY AND ALWAYS BETTER AS LEFTOVERS!
It was really yummy! I put the bacon in the soup to give it more flavor while the soup cooked and I liked it!
I hope my friend Rachel enjoys the soup!
On another note, I thought I'd broach the subject of birth here. Aside from bringing Rachel a couple meals, I needed to get my pool back from her. For those of you who don't know, I have joined the ranks of "homebirthers", having had Ryan (planned!) at home with a midwife, in water. He was born quietly in my bedroom in a birthing pool! Honestly, I'm not a hippy or anything (well not too much anyway!) but for my family and based on my research, birthing at home was the best choice for us. I'm so glad I did it and I can honestly say that Ryan's birth was by far the GREATEST birth experience I have had. The other two births were good too, your textbook epidural births. I have never had any complications or anything, but doing it at home without the epidural, doctors, nurses, bright light shining on me while delivering, etc. was really awesome. If God decides to trick us and give us another baby in spite of Erik's vasectomy, I will most definitely do it at home again!
So anyway, Rachel had borrowed my pool and then in a couple of weeks, my other girlfriend (and now neighbor!) will be borrowing it to have her first homebirth! I can't wait to post pictures of Annette and Jason's little girl (Okay, we don't know what it is, but I am sure it is a girl!). I'm so excited to see homebirthing starting to kind of catch on and am happy to help anyone I can achieve this type of experience.
Anyway, I'll conclude with some pictures from the weekend and then my birth announcement for Ryan, just because I'm feeling a little bit sentimental.:)
Friday night
Tyler with his "gwasses"
Mommy and Ryan hanging out "poolside".
Ryan even gets his highchair pulled poolside.
Bailey posing for the camera... what a character!
Hanging out with my parents
Pops and Ryan
Goofing off with Sussa's hats!
Ryan's Birth Announcement! You might have to click on it, because it's kinda big for this blog...
